When someone has died
What kind of funeral might feel right?
If you don’t know where to begin, that’s normal. We’ll work it out one question at a time. It takes about five minutes, and nothing you choose here is final.
The first few days
Only a few things are yours to do. Others will take care of the rest.
What you’ll need to do
- Register the death: Once the medical examiner’s office says you can, you have 5 days (8 in Scotland), including weekends. You’ll get the “green form” the funeral needs.
- Look for their wishes: A will, a letter or a prepaid funeral plan. Don’t worry if there’s nothing.
- Choose a funeral director: Most families use one. You can also arrange a funeral yourself with help from your local council.
What others will take care of
- The doctor and medical examiner: Confirm the cause of death and contact you. This can take a few days.
- The funeral director: Cares for the person who has died, helps with the paperwork, and books the crematorium or cemetery.
- The celebrant or faith leader: Writes and leads the funeral with you.
One question at a time
Choose whatever feels closest. “I’m not sure” is always fine, and your answers stay on this device.
Question 1
Did they leave any wishes about their funeral?
In a will, a letter, a conversation, or a prepaid funeral plan. Most people don't leave detailed wishes, so don't worry if you can't find any.
This guide covers England and Wales. Registration works slightly differently in Scotland and Northern Ireland. Official guidance: What to do after someone dies (GOV.UK).